Are you a supermom? Do you feel like you NEED to be a supermom?
You know that mom… The one who is always super organized. The one who takes their kids to all kinds of activities. The one who throws super fun birthday parties. The one who does crafts with her kids and is always on top of everything.
I’m not that mom. I never was.
I had a lot of shame about the kind of mom I was when my kids were younger. We’re all a work in progress and I’m still learning to get rid of that shame. I don’t want you to feel that shame about being a super mom.
I actually think there aren’t that many super moms out there. Most people feel like they’re just not doing enough. Give yourself some grace!
Your kids don’t actually need you to be a supermom.What your children need is a stable mom. Someone who is growing and becoming a better human.The world likes to say we need to be balanced, but that balance is pretty difficult to come by, especially when you’re trying to work on all the things at once!
There are seven key areas where we can work on to try and create a ‘balanced’ life.
Finance – Faith – Friends – Family – Fun – Fitness – Field
Growing in any area takes work. But the good news is, each time you work on an area, you level up and stay there while you work on another area. It’s like working a muscle and keeping it fit. Your kids need to see you growing into a better human. That’s how you grow humans, living by example!
I raised my daughter independently enough that she is not following in my footsteps. In a good way. There’s a generational pattern in my family. One that made me feel like I was not good enough to do anything BUT stay home with my kids. I was fortunate to stay home to raise my kids and home school them. It was an absolute blessing. But in the middle of that, I didn’t think I was smart enough or good enough to do anything else in the world. I didn’t think I could do anything AND raise a family.
I didn’t feel like I was enough.
Can it be done? absolutely, it can be done! But that’s really not the point. The real question is this…what does your heart want?
Take a look at this video where I talk about finding what your heart wants and owning it!
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